How does one succeed in life?

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

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That's it for today.

Hangs out with loser friends.

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

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Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

Ask yourself:

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

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Do not set goals—set systems.

Making more friends is a goal.

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

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PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

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Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

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Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

What I need from you?

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

My boss called me on a Saturday to let me know he that due to financial reasons, I was no longer needed effective immediatley. 3 days later, he sends me a text asking about work issues. How do I respond?

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

Living to your full potential is a goal.

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Avoids sugar and is very fit.

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

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Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

Losing 20kg is a goal.

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

How did you respond to, "Why do you love me"?

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

Procrastinates a lot.

When sharing a wife, is it best with your buddy or a stranger?

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

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Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

What is the dirtiest thing you have witnessed your wife do?

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

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Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

Does not procrastinate.

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.